Welcome To The Online Dating Guide
After reading a handful of threads on the Seduction University and the entire section on online dating experiences from the main page, I have come to the conclusion that a great deal of you have no clue what you're doing when it comes to utilizing online dating sites and personals. Not that you can be blamed, it's a different kind of jungle out there and I'm just now discovering what works after two years of falling on my face both online and in person. There's a lot of disinformation out there, and some of you are coming into the online dating realm with it. One of the worst assumptions out there is that you should take your time while meeting girls online. This is wrong, wrong, wrong, and I'll talk about it later. I'll talk about a lot of things. I'll be covering some major ground here in this online dating guide.
The difference between me and most people using online dating sites is that the women eventually come to me and I meet them in person. And they have been quality women. Smart, funny, beautiful, dark, and very cultured. Some have even written into me saying that they're not looking for a relationship at all (they are) but read my profile, and wanted to tell me how wonderful it was and how they wish me the best of luck. Last month I went on three dates with girls that contacted ME. One drove out from Tampa to see me, half a state away. It's the eighth of September, and I've already gone on two dates this month.
I can help you get that far using the internet, but from there you're on your own.
Online dating: A perfect idea on paper
But hey, so is communism. The system has its flaws.
Attention Hoes: The ratio of males to females on these dating sites is way out of whack. As a result, a lot of the woman that hang around for a long time on these sites are simply there to take in as much attention as they possibly can without really going anywhere with anyone. Some would say the women are overloaded with options and so they simply don't feel the need to pick anyone. That may be the case with some of the women on online dating sites, but don't let a few rotten eggs make you think the rest of the carton is no good. There are ways to screen these women.
No Rapport: No matter how much you talk to someone online, you're back at ground zero once you finally meet them in person. You have to build up value and comfort all over again, and with less material than you had before. This issue is side stepped easily as well.
Lady Could be a Dude: Yeah, well these are just the risks you take. In my experience, all of the women I've met have been very honest about who they are and used an up to date picture. Perhaps I'm recognizing red flags in online profiles that most of you are missing? I'll talk about the types of profiles I'm leery of.
Girl Could Have a Boyfriend: So could anyone else you attempt to pickup offline, and this doesn't seem to be a big problem to a lot of people here anyway. This has happened to me. It's not fun. After meeting a girl in person, you should expect her to be as open with you about her life as she would be if you originally met her in person. Remember: You have as much a right to be wary of her as she does of you. You're qualifying HER. This has not changed.
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