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Sup Player,

Alright here goes. There is this hot girl I know and talk to at times. It's so obvious she wants me badly, it's pathetic really. She's had a thing for me for a long time, I just finally started getting the balls to run the game on the ladies. So I've been talking to her lately trying to get to know her, find out things about her, e.t.c. She gives me all the signs like: Her eyes get big when I talk to her, when she speaks her shoulders are directly pointing to me and she is slightly leaning in and talking, and when I smile as she's speaking she smiles back, when I see her we have eye contact and she smiles, I grab her waste and say hey to her. Anyways, occasionally she asks me to give her a ride home...and I trip up and make up some excuse NOT to take her. "What the hell is the matter with this idiot" is what your thinking I'm sure. The reason I decline taking her home is I'm thinking she wants sex with me (which is great obviously) but once I'm in her house I don't know how to go about playing the game correctly to get her aroused and let her know I want it just as badly as she wants it. Any Advice would be greatly appreciated.


Actually Anthony, while I was reading that I was thinking "Play on player!". I almost always make up an excuse the first time (and in some cases the second also) that I am given an obvious open invitation to have sex with a girl that I like... nothing could make her want you MORE! Women love it when we play hard-to-get, and once you put that strategy into play she will stop at no means in her attempts to get you into bed. That is not what you need help with, but I just wanted to let you know that your on the right track.

However, it appears that you've already played that game enough, and it's time for you to get your groove on. Here is a simple strategy for you to employ while you are at her house to make everything go smoothly...

Once your over there, keep your cool and just act as you normally would with her in any other setting... sit on the sofa and begin talking. When she is least expecting it (try to interrupt her in the middle of a sentence) ask her if she likes surprises. If she answers yes, kiss her immediately. If she answers no, kiss her anyway and say "My bad, I forgot that you don't like surprises". She will absolutely love this unique approach and once you get past that first kiss everything else will be easy. Just remember not to think about it too much before you ask her the question, because if you do the anticipation will make you nervous, and nervousness impairs your ability to be "smooth".

-The Player


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