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Observant Woman
from Jeremy
Hey Player,
I just discover your web site and I think you give some interesting advice. Keep up the good work! My question is I approached this women that I have had a crush on for a little while. We talked for around 45 minutes. During the conversation she said that during the time I did not talk to her she though I was kind of arrogant, and that where ever I was, she made sure to be on the other side of the room because she did not want to be near me. She also said that I treated her like she was not alive. I straightened things out and told her I though she was a very attractive girl who I would like to get to know. Then I told her that I had a crush on her. Which she replied with "I like that". My question is the whole time I was talking to her she looked me in the eye only once in a while. And her body was not facing me. Should I read anything into her body language? She did talk to me for 45 minutes. Also, my thinking is that she would have developed so much anger towards me if she was not attracted to me. If I was some guy who she was not attracted to would she ever care? I am interested in this women, so an answer would be very appreciated. Sorry for the length of the letter.
- Jeremy
What's up Jeremy,
Your in a pretty good situation even though her body language is telling you no. Many women display negative body language simply because of the fact that they are feeling uncomfortable. Whenever you know that a woman likes you and she appears to be uncomfortable around you, that just means that she is VERY interested, because if she was not you would not have the ability to make her feel so awkward.
Another good sign is the fact that she had made observations of your behavior before ever really meeting you. When a woman notices a man, the next thing they always do is observe and analyze. If she was not interested in you she would not take that next step, which in this case the woman definitely has.
You should not have much of a problem getting this girl, just remember not to come on too strong or appear to like her too much because that will turn her off.
Let me know how things turn out,
-The Player
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