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I want to talk to you about the idea of
"transformation" and how it relates to you having
more success with women and dating...
When I use the word "transformation," I mean
something very specific... and yet hard to
And to understand it, you have to understand two
shocking truths first
Without understanding these truths, you'll never
know what I REALLY mean by "transformation."
Here they are:
Truth #1: Your mind has you by the balls.
Truth #2: Your balls have you by the mind...
Now, what in the hell do I mean by this?
I mean your mind has you by the balls because YOU
are not directing your own thinking.
You are out of CONTROL.
Your MIND is in control... not YOU.
You walk around in a dream, pretending you're
awake, pretending you're in control of your life.
But you're not.
What's driving your behavior is a system of mental
programming you didn't install... and that you're
not even aware of.
And your balls have you by the mind because that
primal part of you - those instinctual mating
drives - they're actually directing most of your
They're pulling the strings behind the scenes -
and most of the time we're NOT EVEN AWARE OF IT.
Sure, once in a while we wake up for a moment and
realize "Whoa, I'm out of control." Often it's too
hard for us to face this fact, so we repress it.
But if we want to move forward with our lives...
if we want to transform into a naturally
attractive guy... the kind of guy who can attract
what I call a "Total 10" (a ten on the outside...
beautiful, takes good care of herself... and a ten
on the inside... emotionally mature, confident,
etc.)... then WE HAVE TO admit this to ourselves.
We have no other choice.
THE 3 BRAIN THEORY...
After 7 years of teaching this stuff, I've learned
to really RESPECT the human mating process.
You may have heard me talk about the triune brain
theory - the idea that inside our brain are
actually 3 brains that developed over thousands of
years of human development (the reptilian brain,
the mammalian brain, and the logical brain).
When the reptile part of you - the part that's
obsessed with power, survival, and sex - is trying
to "get some," you are completely OUT OF CONTROL.
Of course, we try to rationalize it - we convince
ourselves it's something we CONSCIOUSLY choose to
do - but I've come to believe it's completely on
Now, I don't mean we're out of control like we're
insane and we're going to kill someone, but I mean
we have drives within us that have been around for
thousands of years and that powerfully influence
how we think, feel, and act.
If you can accept this fact, it can be one of
the first steps to transforming yourself into the
kind of man who can direct these deep instinctual
drives in a way that attract women to you... and
put you in the driver's seat of your life.
You think YOU are the one mostly in control of
your life right now?
OK, here's a little test:
Think of something you should be doing every day
to enrich your life, that you're not doing.
Something that if you did it every day, would
totally make your life better.
So, what I want you to do is write a check for one
year of your current salary... get out an
envelope... address it to a buddy... and stick the
check in the mail.
Then call up your buddy and tell him "I'm going to
tell you every day when I do this thing that's
going to improve my life....
And the very first day you don't hear from me,
I want you to cash the check and IMMEDIATELY spend
the money on something so there's no way of
getting the money back."
Go ahead. Do it.
You say you're not thrilled about this idea?
But you're mostly in control, right?
Here's what I think:
I think we're NOT in control most of the time.
I think what's in control is our habit patterns,
our habitual emotions, our drives, etc.
Sure, we can stop ourselves from doing something
really stupid (most of the time)... but we're not
really in control.
What is in control are your deep instinctual
And when they are in control, you GIVE YOUR POWER
Ever hear of the saying "She's got his balls in
You don't want YOUR balls in there... believe me.
But when you learn how to control those drives and
get them to work FOR YOU, that's when you'll
attract a high quality woman - the type of woman
you want to be with long term... what I call, a
But if you're out of control - and you try to give
HER control over the situation, and over YOU -
she'll get turned off INSTANTLY.
Before you even say a word, she'll have her "bitch
shield" up, she'll be cold and distant, and you'll
have NO CLUE how to handle it.
Now, the irony of it all is this kind of woman - a
Total 10 - she doesn't WANT control over you in
the first place.
She doesn't WANT your balls in her purse.
In fact, it annoyed her when you gave them to her.
Attractive, emotionally mature women don't like
guys who aren't in control... and they don't like
guys using "techniques."
So, what you can you do stop giving away your
power to the women in your life... and finally
have a long term relationship with the "girl of
You must TRANSFORM.
This means looking inside ourselves and HONESTLY
trying to figure out why we do what we do, our
patterns of belief that hold us back, and how to
go to the next level of what it means to "be a
As you're guessing by now, the things that attract
and keep a Total 10 aren't technique-based.
If you want one of these, you're going to need to
It doesn't matter what hang-ups, insecurities, or
personal history you have. The principle and ideas
you'll learn will give you the power to
"dismantle" negative programming and create a new
future for yourself.
You'll learn how to re-program your mind for
automatic success with women... FOR THE REST OF
You'll learn how to change deep, unconscious
limiting beliefs and programming that's holding
You'll learn how to deal with intense emotions of
fear and avoidance when you see a woman that you'd
like to approach.
I could go on and on - In other words... this program is a COMPLETE
If you want to be in a relationship with the kind
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I want you to find and keep that one great woman
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