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Take the Lead and a Girl Will Do ANYTHING For You
by Brad P
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Gather round the campfire, it's story time.
I was looking back through my diary and I found this entry from
about 2 years back. It was a huge breakthrough moment for me when I
realized that if you take control of the situation and lead the
woman where you want her to go, almost anything is possible. I had
already been working on this for a year or so, and it was one of
those days where I was just ON FIRE!
Here's my story, with a few notes and teaching points added in:
Today I was out at an outdoor heavy metal concert which was 90%
guys. Not a lot of hot girls there, but I was really feeling like I
can meet a woman if I put my mind to it. Most women are with their
boyfriends. I decide that the best thing to do is catch them on the
way to the ladies room and the guys aren't around. I see 2 really
hot Brazilian girls, a blond and a brunette. They're the hottest
girls at the place and it looks like they're twins. I go up and
deliver one of the openers from the Instant Attraction eBook. They
love it, they laugh, and everything is going well, until this other
girl busts in and starts hitting on my 2 Brazilians. This new girl
was a 6 foot tall brunette. She was really hot too.
The conversation went something like this-
Tall Girl: "Sorry to interrupt but my brother dared me to come over
here cause you
two are so beautiful, and I just wanted to meet you..."
(This got me totally screwed up because this tall girl was trying
to take the Brazilians away from me. I had already done a good
job getting them to like me. I felt threatened by the tall girl at
first, but then I realized this was presenting some great
opportunities. I decided that the tall girl could also be a great
score for me. She's a horny bisexual girl who's got enough courage
to go 1 on 1 against me. She would probably be down for anything if I
could get her attracted to me.)
Brad P: "Oh I get it; you really thought I was hot, so you decided
to compliment these two girls so maybe I would talk to you."
Tall girl: "Well yeah you're hot too, but my brother really dared
Brad P: (cutting her off) "Yeah I know. I think it's cute that you
came up with that whole plan just to get my attention, but these
girls are my bodyguards, and if you try to make a move on me,
they'll tie you up and throw you in the pile with all the other
girls who tried to fondle me today, so be a good girl."
Tall girl: "Ok and if i'm not."
Brad P: "Then you get a spanking." (SPANK!)
(Now her brother comes in. He's acting really dorky and staring in
awe at the two Brazilian girls. At this point I felt it was a
strong possibility I could seduce the tall girl pretty quickly. The
Brazilian girls I could have tried for a threesome with, but there
wasn't much time. The show was almost over and I knew people would
be scattering quickly after such a long day. So I elected to go
for the tall girl. The Brazilians were now just minor players in
the equation. The tall girl was impressed that I had these
beautiful Brazilian girls interested in me. They had served their
purpose. Now just needed to get rid of her brother. This can be
really hard to do at a concert.
I quickly decided to assume the persona of a pimp who was in charge
of the 2 Brazilian girls. The women would know it's a joke. The guy
wouldn't get it. Women understand subtle humor and role playing so
much better than men.)
Brad P: "Hey man, you dig these girls? For $500 you get an hour
with both of them."
(He looks at me completely confused.)
Brad P: "Ok $450 but that's the best I can do. I'm gonna give you
a discount cause I think they like you."
(He's totally stunned, the girls all laugh. The Brazilians walk off
to the bathroom.
The girls all get the joke, but the guy is totally confused. Let's
take a moment to think about why this is happening. Remember in the
last newsletter how I talked about how most men go through years
and years of pussification? That was the case with this guy. He had
been taught that you should always be nice and you should always
say exactly what you mean. The real world doesn't work that way.
Many people speak with hints and implications. Women are experts at
understanding different meanings. I was communicating with the
women on a totally different level. This is level you need to learn
about to succeed with women. It's a lot to understand, I know.
Ok back to our story....
Brad P. (to brother): "OK dude I was just kidding about all that,
but seriously I think you have a good chance at nailing both those
chicks. They're f.cking hot right? OK, wait right here, they should
be out of the bathroom in like 5 minutes. I'm gonna entertain your
sister while you take care of that and we'll
catch up with you guys in 10 minutes."
(What I just did was I engage the brother in guy talk. It's a
simple, direct kind of communication. "Those girls are hot right?
We'll be right back. Take care of those chicks for me." Really
simple. Who could ever say no to that? I buried the objectionable
proposition (I'm taking your sister) beneath 2 other propositions
that no guy could refuse if he expects to look tough and manly
("Those girls are hot"...and..."please have s.x with them").
The girl was completely blown away by how I took control of the
situation. We walked off into the parking lot and I had her in the
car THREE times. At one point we're going at it in her in her car,
and her brother comes back and starts banging on the window saying
"police! police!" She says "Shut up Matt, come back later." HA!
Women are under a lot of rules and pressure to never have sex. It
feels good for them to lash out once in a while and just tell the
world "SCREW YOU, I WANT TO F;CK!" This was the situation. I had
created a special kind of magic and it was a huge breakthrough for
me and a great adventure for her.
Another thing to take notice of: Those 4 people barely said a word.
I ran the show. I controlled the conversation and cut off all
annoying tangents. I only had to control it for about 3-5 minutes
and it was game over, so it wasn't a struggle or a mental marathon.
This is a concept I often talk about called "Frame Control." Frame
control means that YOU control the direction of the conversation.
Every conversation has multiple sub-conversations going on inside
it. These are called threads.
-Telling you about frame control.
-Telling the story about the heavy metal concert.
-Checking up on how your walk is coming along.
If you build the ability to be aware of various threads in a
conversation, you can cut off the ones that aren't working to your
advantage. For example, I cut off the thread where the Tall Girl
was trying to hook up with the two Brazilians. It wasn't helping me
much, so I cut it of Loretta Bobbitt style.
That's the idea.
Talk about what you want to talk about. Talk about the things that
are going to help you reach the goal. Cut the threads that are
moving you further from your goal.
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