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What To Do If You Are Infatuated
by Matthew Whiting
You've been staring at her with that sick puppy-dog look for too
long. You can't help but noticing her every single habit ... what
time she goes to the copy machine ... where she goes on her lunch
break ... the way in which she checks her nails. If she catches
your eye while passing in the hallway, you're elated for days. If
you overhear her laughing into her cell phone and murmuring a male
name, you feel like tearing your hair out and moving to another
city. This has got to stop.
Welcome to the world of infatuation.
Infatuation, quite simply, is being stuck on someone. Some people
mistake it for love; they move from relationship to relationship as
soon as their infatuation with a person wanes. Infatuation is not
a bad thing in and of itself, but it should only be temporary.
Infatuation is a stage ... it should NOT be a condition. If you
stay
infatuated too long, you can find that your infatuation will begin
to affect your life in negative ways.
How to Know if You Are Infatuated
- You felt a passionate desire to be with the person with whom you
are infatuated.
- You experience the "High and Low" syndrome, or mood swings
depending on how the person you are infatuated with responds.
- You find yourself daydreaming about her.
- You feel a hungry feeling when you are away from her.
- You feel incomplete and lonely when she is far away.
- You need constant reassurance from her.
- Your life becomes focused on her. You may even change your life
to accommodate her.
- You live in constant fear of rejection or abandonment.
- You feel a deep need for your feelings to be returned by her.
If you feel like you have been down this path before, you know how
it ends. Either you confront the woman with your feelings of love
and face her possible rejection, or you wither away with your
unresolved feelings until you can't stand it anymore and take steps
to avoid seeing her anymore.
Don't worry if you easily become infatuated. You get to experience
the highs that many other more sensible people don't get to
experience. You see the wonder in many women, and women will find
themselves attracted to you due to the force of your feelings
towards them. However, you may also find yourself moving
ceaselessly from one woman to another, seeking to maintain that
high of infatuation. Don't let the need for infatuation blind you
to the benefits of quieter, deeper, more enduring love.
When the intensity of infatuation naturally fades, your emotions
will dampen down. You may feel as if you have fallen out of love.
You haven't--you've just fallen out of infatuation. The best part
is ahead. Now you will be more realistic about what you and your
partner have to offer one another. You'll begin to develop deeper
intimacy based on respect and understanding of the other person.
You may discover that the solid ground of a loving relationship is
better than the high and insecurity of dating the object of your
infatuation for the first time.
If you are stuck in infatuation, remember the following:
- Infatuation is just a stage, NOT a condition.
- Move on. If you haven't asked the girl out yet, do so. Let her
response give you the only answer you need: yes or no. If the
answer is no, move on.
- Infatuation can be a fun rollercoaster ride, but the ultimate
goal is still ahead: enduring, deep romantic love.
- Infatuation wears blinkers. A healthy dose of reality about the
girl you are infatuated with can go a long way in curing you ... or
giving you the courage you need to ask her out.
- Don't do anything you'll later regret. Infatuation can be an
intoxication. You may feel as if you'll go to any lengths to win
the object of your infatuation. Take a moment to remember the
cardinal rule of dating: acting like a puppy dog won't get you the
girl.
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