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I want to tell you a story.
I have two friends with two very different
ideas on how to meet women.
One friend will walk up to every woman he
meets and try to get a date with them.
The other will wait around, study a woman
he likes, and wait for a signal she's open
to being approached.
Neither method is better than the other,
but while my first friend meets with a lot
of rejection and failure, my second friend, the
one who scopes out his target beforehand, has
a much higher success rate.
See, he only goes after women who like him.
He calls himself a "sniper," picking his
targets with accuracy, whereas my other
friend is a "shotgun," hitting everything
and hoping something sticks.
When you know a woman is into you, she
becomes a "target of opportunity."
This means that you have an "inroad" with
the woman. An opening that let's you know
you have a chance of scoring with her.
This can be valuable for many reasons. It
reduces uncertainty, helps bolster confidence
and self esteem, etc. But it can be hit
or miss, depending on your look, your belief
system, and what the girl is into.
There are certain cues you can look for to
tell when the woman is a "target of opportunity."
The biggest of which is an "eye cue."
If a girl looks you up and down quickly when
she first sees you, chances are she's interested.
This is because she likes your face, and she
wants to see what the rest of you is like.
It may not be a 100% sure thing, but it's
definitely "on" if you see that eye signal.
If you catch a woman looking at you and she
turns away suddenly, chances are she was
checking you out. You know how this is, men
are guilty of it all the time.
Remember when you saw a beautiful woman and you
were staring at her, soaking in her beauty,
maybe daydreaming a bit, and she turns
and sees you? What do you do?
That's right, you look away and pretend nothing
was happening.
Well, girls are the same way. Just be aware of it.
Another sign she's interested is pupil dilation.
If you're talking to a girl and her pupils are
as big as saucers, then it's a good
chance she's attracted to you!
There's an old saying that eyes are the window's
to the soul. This is very true. Keep your
attention on a woman's eyes and she'll let
you know when the opportunity to seduce her
is present.
But once you see the opportunity present
itself, are you prepared to seize it? Or
will you simply let it pass you by because
you don't know how to approach that girl?
In my book, The Art Of Approaching, you'll
learn tactics that will help you overcome
any hesitation and meet women with ease and
without fear. If you haven't checked out
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Once you know how to successfully approach
any woman you want, you'll never have to let
another opportunity pass you up again.
Wishing you success with women,
Joseph Matthews
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