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Women don't want a man with money because they love money, they just know that with more money they can have more FUN. Women don't desire popular/famous men because they want to have a high social status, they simply know that having higher status means that they'll have access to even more FUN. Women are not attracted to men in power because they want to be powerful, they just know that with power they'll be allowed to have as much FUN as they want to.
Notice the trend here?
At the end of the day, all that women really want more than anything else is to have fun and be shown a good time. This is particularly true when it comes to beautiful women, who do not need to worry about "being accepted" or insecurities. They quite simply don't have anything more important to do than focus on making sure that their lives are like one big vacation. I'm not just talking about the party girls either; even highly motivated career women want to let their hair down at the end of the day and carelessly enjoy life.
It is for this reason why women are NOT attracted to men who come off as "average". If you are one of the millions of men who would during a conversation refer to yourself as "just an average guy", then you are having problems with women. Right?
Of course, because you are simply being too normal to be any fun. Women want men that have a sense of adventure and an element of danger about them, not the guys who like to play it safe. The last thing a woman wants to hear come out of a man's mouth is "I'm just your average guy...", they want to hear stuff like "You've never met anyone like me before" and then be shown why that statement is true.
Hot women have the power of choice - to be selective - because men are constantly attempting to engage them in conversation. When your competition is that stiff, you need to rise above the rest and stand out, or you will be forgotten before the sun rises the next day, even if you did manage to get her number. Those of you wondering why they always blow you off when you call, now you know the answer; you were simply forgettable.
Don't take it personal. You aren't being determined to be so insignificant to these women because there is something wrong with you or that you are making any kind of huge mistake. It is happening to you because of something that you are NOT doing, and that something is setting yourself apart from the vast number of other men out there.
"Fitting in" is definitely not something you want to do if you want top-notch girlfriends.
You probably aren't a boring person, and those who DO hang around you probably have a good time in your company, but when you are out meeting new women how are they going to know that? It is true that women are more socially proficient than men by nature, but they can't read your mind. If you want to avoid being labeled as "just another average, boring guy" you are going to have to do something about it. If not, you will always be thrown into the bargain bin with all of the other men who failed to see the point.
That point being; women want to have FUN (which I already expressed earlier), and a normal guy (otherwise known as a boring guy) just can't provide them with that.
I'm not saying that you should throw a mohawk on your head and wear a spiked leather jacket, or that you need to get a custom paint job on your car that changes colors as people pass by (very lame, FYI). Those extremes are things that men with zero game use in an attempt to lure in women because they need material things to compensate for their overall lack of game or self esteem. What you need to be doing is focusing on making yourself BE an interesting person that is different than the rest, not just someone who either looks interesting or owns cool stuff. You must also learn how to present that to women in a fashion that can be conveyed through a normal conversation very quickly. There really is no point in being a fun, adventurous guy when you don't know how to properly show the women that you desire those character traits.
The first impression is very important, and it is during that small window of time that you must show a woman why she will have FUN if she hangs around you, and you aren't like all of the other losers she's already shot down that night.
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