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Even the greatest players in the world have dry spells and dips in
their confidence levels. Granted, their decrease in confidence may
not be as drastic as with the average man, but it is still there and
it is definitely felt. I know this from first hand experience.
Life is all about ups and downs, and in turn so is the dating game.
You'll have high times when you have multiple women to choose from,
and you'll feel like you are the man. Then before you know it, the
next weekend you might not be able to reach any women on the phone,
have no date for the night, and feel like you've lost your edge.
All of this is a natural cycle that everyone must go through. How
much you allow it to affect you on a mental level will determine how
much it will affect your game externally.
Some men never recover from a dry spell, because they begin feeling
pity for themselves and believe that it is somehow their own fault
as to why they can not get any women at that time. Eventually, after
a prolonged experience of feeling like you are a loser, you are
going to actually make it become a reality since your mental state
is so in tune with feeling that way.
On the other hand, there are some guys who understand that nobody is
always going to be chased by women all of the time, and that we all
are going to get rejected at some time of another no matter how much
game we may have.
It's simply a numbers game with a little luck thrown into the mix.
Think of it like gambling; you won't always be dealt a great hand,
but even with a bad hand you could still win if you play it right.
As goes the dating game, and when you are dealt a "bad hand" and are
having a low point in your life, you need to man up and realize that
it will not last forever so the best course of action is to try to
make the most of what you have at that time.
For example, if you go a few weeks without getting laid once and
zero women are showing interest in you, instead of sulking around
with your head down you could be out meeting random people and
building up your social circle. Just because you are having trouble
finding a girlfriend doesn't mean you are going to have trouble
making friends, and the more friends that you have the better chance
you have of meeting a new women who could be your next girl.
Do you see how positive thinking not only can help you through the
bad times, but also ensure that good times are soon to come? Like
most things in life, this is a battle that must be fought within
your own mind. You decide the outcome.
As I stated earlier, even the absolute best players around go
through the same cycle of ups and downs that you go through. I know
this for a fact because I am one of the best, and it happens to me.
Anyone who tells you that they have perpetual success with women all
of the time without any "down times" is blowing smoke up your ass.
Usually those are the guys who still have some insecurities and feel
as if they have something to prove.
I'm not like that, and without hesitation will tell you straight up
that I am not perfect and there are times when women seem to simply
not be interested in me. When that happens, what is do is simple: I
tell myself that I know it will pass and I'll be back to feeling
like a champion before I know it, and then I preoccupy myself by
doing something else that is constructive to pass the time.
Whether or not a dry spell is a mere speed bump or a brick wall is
determined by your own perception of it. If you think of it as a
huge deal that is completely ruining your game, then chances are it
might end up doing just that. However, if you take it for what it
is, a simple obstacle that you can overcome, you'll be back to
pimping in no time.
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