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Lately I've been a bit more proactive about promoting this website in unique and fun ways. Sure, I've got first-page rankings on Google/Bing and a huge fan base (I love you guys by the way, you make what I do worth it), but why not do some live promoting myself while I'm out partying?
My personal favorite method that I've been actively using is what I call "Kiss Cards" (probably because it requires me to interact with hundreds of women). The concept is quite simple; I go to a bar or club and approach every single woman/group of women that are there, then once I've finished my conversations with everyone and have provided them each with a fair supply of Kiss Cards, I then move on to a new venue to find some fresh faces.
The women are then free to hand out the cards to men that approach them, thus doing the work for me and having some fun themselves in the process (that is, if they know how to have fun).
When I approach these women, I use a variety of ways to open a conversation based upon their perceived status and personality, but always lead the conversation in a direction that allows me to ask them questions about what they do when men hit on them, and how they handle turning men down when they need to. I never display personal interest in these women. Quite frankly, because I truly do have zero sexual interest in them. I'm always open about the fact that I have a girlfriend and am just out to have a good time, socialize, and promote my business. I've never cheated, and never will. Besides, I've yet to find a woman better than the one I already have, so trying to seek out new lovers would be like going to a used car lot and trading in a Ferarri for a Mazda.
Ok, now that I've filled you in with that background info (it was necessary for you to know that, you'll understand why in a moment). Let's get back to the Kiss Cards. Here's what they look like:
How I use these cards to promote the website is by handing them out to women so they can give the cards to men that they want nothing to do with who hit on them. Sometimes I give the women tips on how to use the cards to their advantage, such as telling the guy that if he buys her a drink she will give him a kiss, then after getting the drink handing over a Kiss Card (it wasn't a lie, she technically DID give him a "kiss"). Only confident women are comfortable with using that strategy, so most tend to just say "Sorry, not interested. But here's a kiss for trying." or they kiss the card itself and then hand it over to the man (a girl actually thought that one up for me, I think it's sexy).
Regardless of how the women choose to use the cards, I'm getting the promotion that I want, so it really doesn't matter. I've seen many women use them in really cool ways, it all depends on how outgoing and creative the individual girl is. The success rate of women taking the cards from me is phenomenally high, well over 90%. However, I estimate the rate of women who actually give them out to be lower. Giving out the cards is undoubtedly a much more fun way for them to turn men away, so every cool girl I've met has enjoyed having a unique way to break up the endless monotony that interactions in the club scene brings to the table.
Just like men need confidence to approach women, confidence is a prerequisite for women to be bold enough to give out the cards. They must also be cool and down to have a good time.
Not everyone can be cool though, but those kind of women are uninteresting anyway, particularly the beautiful women who expect to just ride their entire lives out based on their looks. They are shallow and bore me, and after talking to that type of woman I'm more upset that I just wasted 3 minutes of my night on them than anything else. Don't get me wrong, I meet dozens of gorgeous girls every night that are intelligent and are a blast to socialize with, and they make it worth the effort to filter through the others. I just don't have the time or patience for dull women.
If some women want to throw the cards on the floor and continue on with their uninteresting night and boring lives, so be it. The cards cost me only 2 cents a piece due to the bulk I buy, and for every ignorant woman I meet there are four engaging ones that faces light up when they see the cards and realize how much fun they can have with them. People can have a wide variety of personalities, ranging from some being intriguing while others are just flat out insipid. Avoid shallow women at all costs, regardless of their looks. Beauty is a VERY common thing.
Even more importantly, pretty women were born that way and did absolutely nothing to earn their appearance, so under no circumstances should you ever place them on a pedestal for it.
Never forget this: Being easy on the eyes does not make a woman special, just LUCKY.
If a woman doesn't have the entire package and can't offer anything more than a pretty face, she's not worth your time. You can just as easily find another woman who looks just as good (or even better) who also has a personality to match her exterior. Anyway, enough with the ranting. I just hope that the message got through and you understand the logic. Notice how I am unfaltered by women who don't take me seriously and just continue on with my night? They need to earn the right to be special and memorable, I do not just hand that out because they look hot. That is the same mentality you should have about the dating game when you are out approaching women.
That was the first point I had to make, I'll get to the second (most important) one in a moment.
But first... I forgot that I had a story to tell :)
Let's get on with it...
So, the other night I went to a few local clubs in the suburban area where I've been staying recently. The first two weren't really popping off, so I finished my rounds at both within a couple of hours. Afterward, I went to a third club and the crowd was much more dense. It was a small place, nothing special compared to some of the more upscale venues that I'm accustomed to frequenting in major cities (no multiple DJ's, no second floor, not even a VIP area), but it was fairly packed and had enough women in attendance for me to relinquish well over 200 Kiss Cards.
About mid-way through my time at this club, I had to "break the seal" so I headed toward the restroom. In this club, both the women's and men's restrooms are situated down a long hallway. At the end of the hallway, the men's room was on the right ride, the women's on the left, with another doorway leading outside of the club in the middle. Guarding the door leading outside was a bouncer, who was most likely positioned there to discourage underage people from sneaking in through the back. As I approached, I noticed that there was a line of people waiting for both restrooms. This is pretty uncommon (for the men's room), since us men are fairly quick to handle our business while women tend to linger in there fixing their hair and makeup, or doing lines of coke :) After making my observation, I said out loud to nobody in particular "A line for the men's room? Wierd." The bouncer replied, "Well at least you can talk to these pretty girls while you wait" and I responded with without hesitation, "Don't worry, I had already intended to."
Now comes the funny part...
So I begin running my Kiss Card game as usual on the women, building up to the crescendo in which I will give them my cards, and after about every 5 words that come out of my mouth the bouncer jumps in with a cock blocking statement (funny thing was, it was in vain because I wasn't interested in the women in the slightest). So I simply shushed or ignored him each time and continued doing my thing, but his rudeness was progressively getting on my nerves. The women didn't seem to care about his comments either, so it wasn't a big deal... until I presented my cards to the girls. When the bouncer saw me handing the cards to the women, the fact that they accepted them must have brewed up even more jealousy in him. He chimes in with "Handing out cards to get laid never works dude, you should just stop!" I laugh and respond "Did you even hear a word I said? I know you did because you couldn't mind your own business the entire time. I have no plans on getting laid, and you know it." His only response was to repeat himself "Dude, it never works" while shaking his head with a stupid looking grin on his face.
By that time the women already had the cards and had entered the women's restroom, so I didn't care to waste any more time talking to the hating bouncer and went into the men's room myself. On my way out, I simply said "Have fun back here!" sarcastically to him and went on with the rest of my night. I could have (and perhaps should have) attempted to help the bouncer by explaining that cock blocking is the absolute worst thing that any man can do. Attempting to destroy someone else's conversation with a women does nothing more than lower your own social value. If you want women to think that you are so worthless that you have nothing better to do than try to sabotage another man's discussions, then cock blocking is right down your alley. I've never met a man who gets women that was also a cock blocker, simply because if you know how to run your own game, you are too busy minding your own business to worry about what any other guy is doing.
Even if you are in a DIRECT competition with another man over the same girl, trying to make him look bad in front of her will always backfire on you. It displays insecurity and coveys to the woman that you view the other guy as a threat. There is nothing more lame than a jealous man who cock blocks others for absolutely no reason, they are the lowest of the low on the social ladder.
In all honesty, I really do pity that bouncer even though he really got under my skin if only for a brief moment. With all of the hot women that he is exposed to every night, you'd imagine that he would have developed enough game by now to understand that rudely interrupting someone who is talking to a group of women does nothing more than make yourself look like a complete and total loser. A real man just handles his own business, and keeps his nose out of others.
The funniest part about it was that HE was the one to initially suggest that I talk to the girls while I waited. In hindsight, it was an obvious attempt to set me up for failure (must be how he gets his kicks), but once he saw that I wasn't just the average guy trying to get laid and actually succeeded at engaging the women in conversation, he felt like an idiot and tried to redeem himself by hating on me with annoying attempts at making me look bad. Ever had a mosquito buzzing near your ear?
I should have given him a card personally, he really needed it. Perhaps later on one of the women I dispersed cards to that night gave him one, or he found one lying around the club after closing time and pocketed it. Ironically, he could be reading this article right now, and if so, it is the most important thing he'll ever read. He can consider it a free private lesson. I charge $45 for 30 minutes of coaching, so if you are reading this; you're welcome.
The bottom line is this: there is absolutely NO social situation in which cock blocking is a productive or necessary thing for you to do. No exceptions, period. Trying to make someone else look bad will only result in making yourself look even worse. It makes you look like you have no life.
The people who don't mind their own business...
...do it because they have no business of their own!
Hate is familiar to me, it comes along with the territory when you interact with hundreds of new people each week as I do. I've dealt with every type of cock blocker and hater imaginable, but the worst of the bunch are the ones who are actually undermining themselves through their inappropriate behavior. I can't do anything but feel bad for them, and hope that they eventually resolve the internal issues they have which are interfering with their social lives.
I guess I have to thank that bouncer for being the inspiration for this article, his rude actions will now help thousands of others to avoid making those same mistakes. There's a positive side to everything, it's just that not too many people have to will or courage to look deep enough to find it.
Want a summary? Cock blocking is lame... don't be lame. Got it? Good.
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