Game is about improving yourself as a person, increasing your chances to succeed. Psychologists and doctors relate brain activity in so many different ways, it would be extremely difficult to fully interpret the actions and reactions of ones mind.
My philosophy is this, the brain acts in two basic characters, aggressive and passive. The brain also reacts in two characters, comfort and discomfort. I know, it's all very analytical, but it really broadens the way you approach and view things. You can relate any situation to this philosophy and find an overwhelming response of the traits. The goal of this article is to help you interpret my philosophy and put the knowledge of it into practice.
Active Brain - Aggressive
The active parts of your brain are what everyone sees. They see the type of person you are, and how you handle certain circumstances or situations.
Aggressive traits come from desire, and will. Ok, but why is this important to know? It is important to understand because when you are actively pursuing a goal, target, even a a dream, you display a certain type of energy. This energy is confident, it is determined and persistent. It is a very sexy energy, and usually portraits attributes women find very attractive.
Active Brain - Passive
Passive traits come from comfort, or an analyzer. The energy that this part of the active brain conveys is content, focused, and intelligent. Both active parts display very attractive and successful qualities. A lot of psychologists or therapists, will sit and tell you what is wrong with you, and then how you should fix it. I completely disagree with this method, because who wants to hear everything that is wrong with them?
Four People
There are four types of people in my philosophy:
- Aggressive-Aggressive
- Aggressive-Passive
- Passive-Aggressive
- Passive-Passive
Aggressive-Aggressive are the type of people who never stop moving. They push with everything they have, until they accomplish their goal, and then move forward to a new one. These people often succeed, because you can't fail every time, not when you have this much persistence.
Aggressive-Passive people make decisive steps toward their goals, once they accomplish one, they sit back and wait for a new one to confront them. These are the kind of people that live for challenges and rarely give up.
Passive-Aggressive is what I would relate myself to. We are the type that achieve goals in a less dominant way. We like to pay attention to detail and observe things from every angle before pursuing. These types of people are normally very wise and will approach goals with ease, not regularly having to reattempt.
Passive-Passive persons like to sit back and let everything fall in their lap. It normally does, because they do so in knowledge that they can make things happen without very much effort. These are people that make everything look very easy.
Finding Yourself
In entirety the goal here is to help you find your comfort zone, because comfort is contagious. Take a look at the four types and figure out which one you fit in the most. Take this knowledge, honestly, and don't try to be anything else. Irregularities are caused by one type attempting to display qualities of another, when he/she already has very attractive attributes to work with.
Passive Brain - Discomfort
This is what we are here to eliminate, it's not so much as finding comfort, as it is eliminating discomfort. When you have found your person type, you have made a huge step in abolishing discomfort in your life.
Discomfort comes from an urge to fit in to your environment, like a chameleon, except we can't change who we are. Instead of attempting to fit in with our surroundings, we should adjust ourselves to accept them, while maintaining our own.
Passive Brain - Comfort
This is the enlightenment of your inner self. Once you have established your elimination of discomfort you can focus on your comfort level. By accepting yourself as your type, and not attempting to be anything less. Anything that you are not, is less.
Comfort comes from the acceptance of yourself, and other people as they are. Everyone can relate to everyone in one way or another, and you have some very attractive qualities about yourself. This is what inspires you to live life to its fullest.
Summary
All in all, once you have eliminated discomfort and established your comfort, the rest of yourself will fall into place. The confidence, determination, unique style of game will form and shape itself around your person. You'll begin to realize how naive you were by attempting to be some of the people you read about.
A lot of what you read is false information. Most of what you read is masked, it is a guideline or exercise inn helping you discover who you are and where you are going. So what is game? Game is your journey to establishing a successful life. Here are the dice, you're up. Let's see if you can make it to the end.
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