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1) Had a self-image that didn't include "hooking
up" with a guy the first night you meet him.
2) A STRONG sexual attraction to a guy that you
just met, and you want to hook up with him the
night you met him?
You'd say things like, "I'm not this kind of
girl" and "I don't usually do this" and "What do
you think about this?" etc. etc. etc....
You've asked me what I think of this, and how
to respond to it when it happens.
First, I think it's normal and natural for a
woman to behave this way. Get used to it.
Secondly, as far as responding to this kind of
thing... I have a couple of thoughts for you.
1) Don't Expect Anything
I think that guys get their hopes up when a
woman "comes home" with them... and they get more
and more excited about the possibility of "hooking
up"... to the point where they're UPSET if it
When you put this much importance on something,
you set yourself up for failure... and often do
things to CAUSE failure. When you WANT something,
it costs more. Right?
So don't EXPECT anything. Be OK with whatever
happens. Lean back. Chill. Be cool.
2) Make Sure She Knows
The next step is to let the woman you're with
KNOW that whatever happens is cool.
When you start using all the different concepts
and techniques that you've learned together... and
you start to smoothly transition from one step to
the next... you will start to see women responding
But, part of this powerful response will
USUALLY be some sort of "resistance."
Because women aren't used to meeting men who
KNOW all this stuff!
They're not used to being swept away by the
powerful sexual emotions that you're triggering
with your communication, body language, and touch.
I'm not kidding here.
Don't be surprised when some women get so
freaked out that they literally run out the door
or start shaking with nervousness.
Women just aren't used to men who know how to
make them feel things this powerfully!
Now, if a woman says "I don't know if this is a
good idea, I don't usually do things like this
with a guy I've just met"... you basically have a
couple of choices.
You can PUSH, in which case you'll usually meet
with resistance... or you can PULL BACK, then let
things start again slowly... which will make it
far more likely that things will continue to the
The real key here is walking into every
situation with a woman NOT EXPECTING anything...
or being overly concerned with the outcome.
Don't worry about it. And expect this kind of
thing from women... it's normal and natural.
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