I hope you're taking these lessons to heart and
will make a commitment to apply all this free
golden information I'm sharing with you.
When I was first starting out trying to get better
with women, I WISH there had been a resource like
my course, The Art Of Approaching, to guide me in
my quest to improve my love life.
But it's because there was no resource like The
Art Of Approaching that I decided to write that
book, so you wouldn't have to go through all
the trial and error I did!
And one of the hardest things I had to figure
out was what to do AFTER I meet a woman.
I mean, flirting is good, and it's a powerful
tool. But you need to have a framework that
will allow you to use it.
And that framework is...
STORYTELLING!
Yes, I know, that sounds dumb, but bear with me...
When I was struggling to meet women, I was
able to get to the point where I could talk
to them, I could even flirt a little with
them, but after that, the interaction
just peetered out.
Basically, I couldn't think of anything to
talk about! And the woman would get bored,
and eventually move on to something more
interesting.
Then, one night, I was out with a friend of
mine who's naturally good with women, and
we went to a bar. Now, I had never really
taken the time to sit back and observe what
this friend of mine did, but this night, I
decided to hang back and watch him work.
And I was SHOCKED at the results.
I came to realize that I was doing everything
my friend was doing, EXCEPT telling stories!
The funny thing is, I've heard his stories
so many times, that I learned to tune them
out when he'd retell them to women. What I
realized was that though I was bored with
the stories, the girls were completely
captivated by them!
It's funny, because most men who are naturals
with women are usually good storytellers.
They're able to tell a story that's so
entertaining, you can't help but have a
good time with them!
Remember this: Storytelling = Entertainment = Good Time
And if you can show a woman a good time,
they'll always want to be around you!
Now, another interesting fact about naturals
with women, is that they always tell the same
stories over and over again.
This is because they perfect their stories every
time they tell them, and they also know which
stories work to get the women they're talking
to interested!
But these stories all have something in common,
no matter who is telling what story. There's
one common factor that binds them all together.
It's the "secret" of every natural ladies man
anywhere, and I'm going to share it with you
right now.
THE STORY IS ALL ABOUT THEM!
That's right. They talk about themselves.
There's a very specific reason for this that
I'll get to in just a moment.
Now, I cover the art of storytelling in great
detail in my book, but I'm going to share some
fundamentals here with you so you'll know how
to do it.
The first thing you have to do is KNOW SOME GOOD
STORIES.
They should be stories from your life that are
entertaining. Beware boring stories! They will
KILL the vibe of your interaction.
Next, when you meet a girl, ask her some
questions about herself. Simple things
like "Where are you from," or "What do you
like to do."
Keep asking her about herself until you
find something you can relate your
story to.
For instance, if she's from Chicago, and
you have a story about living in Chicago
or visiting Chicago, that's the perfect
time to tell it!
It's important to tell stories that relate
to the woman's experience, because that
helps you to create a sense of connection
with her.
It's a way of creating a common experience you both
share. Remember that old phrase "We have so
much in common!"?
Well, that's important because people gravitate
towards that which is familiar. And the more
familiar you can make yourself to her, the
easier time you'll have getting a date.
Finally, make sure you're story is about YOU!
I mentioned this before, about how most
naturals just talk about themselves, but
there's a reason for doing this beyond
seeming self-centered.
When you tell a story that's fun and
entertaining, where YOU'RE the main
character, others will associate
their good feelings that story
creates with YOU.
The more good feelings you can associate
with yourself, the easier your job becomes,
because trust and comfort are created in
your audience.
That's why so many women are attracted to
rock stars and musicians. Their songs
create such good feelings inside them,
they associate all those feelings to
the people playing the songs!
You're doing the exact same thing, only
instead of music, you're doing it with
words.
In my course, The Art Of Approaching, I show you
how to craft your own stories and all the
elements you need to have in place to totally
captivate a woman and get her interested in you.
If you only learn one skill from my book, this
is the one to learn!
You can download your copy and be reading it in
just a few minutes by clicking below:
The Art Of Approaching
If you can create your own stories where you're
the main character and others will have fun
listening to you weave your tale, I guarantee
you'll start to have amazing success with
women.
Wishing you success with women,
Joseph Matthews
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